What is a Domme?

A Domme learns technique and takes the Fetish Arts seriously. Our  submissives and slaves truly desire to serve, as is their purpose, and achieve great fulfillment through service to us. Dommes are usually highly educated and indulge in intellectual stimulation. We are always looking for ways to improve technique and get more enjoyment out of the lifestyle. BDSM is not just a kink to us, it is an expression of part of our highest selves in balance with the world around us.

We know how to be cordial and respectful to other Dominants and to proper submissives and slaves. A Domme knows that Dominance begins with control of oneself. Dommes are noticed and admired when we enter a room.

A Domme gives forethought to her presentation of herself. Her sophistication comes from respecting herself first. She embodies the term "Goddess" by being herself, a work of art with her appearance, intelligence, education and social grace. A Domme controls herself first and will even anger with eloquence. A Domme is an artist and her goal is to create splendor in life; however she may express it: from sensual to extreme. A  submissive or slave accepted presents himself for her pleasures and is rewarded for fulfilling them. There is self-realization and evolution for both the Domme and the submissive or slave through the dynamic she creates.