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slave questionnaire

(for long-term TPE)

 

This is a very detailed questionnaire about yourself, however in a Mistress/slave relationship complete openness is required in order for it to be successful. It is essential that you provide scrupulously accurate answers so I can realistically assess your personality, wants and needs, as well as whether I need to address other issues besides your desire to serve. The basis of the relationship with your Mistress and your own growth as Her slave demands total honesty and relaxed, focused attention to all details requested.  If you are unable to wholeheartedly give this your focused attention and be honest with your answers, do not waste my time or yours. Do not leave any questions blank, if no, none, or not done, simply state that. Copy and paste the application  into an email (slave will possibly need to change the color of the text), answer the questions and email to MistressJorja@gmail.com.  The spacing does not determine the length of your answers. you can have more than one answer, you may find repeats or similar questions to those in your previous questionnaire. Answer them.

If you have never had training or experience, answer with  "i am an untrained slave Mistress" and skip to the next question.  Do not leave any questions blank. None

 

Date completed:

slave name:

Contact telephone number and time you normally can be reached:

Email address:

What country and town/city do you live in:



 

Part One: General overview and information 

All answers are expected to elaborate on the subject matter in question. No one (1) word answers are to be given. All answers should be a minimum of one full sentence, preferably a paragraph.

 

1. i seek and require the guidance of a Mistress to….?

(What  being a slave is going to do for you?)

2. i seek and require the guidance of a Mistress because….?

(Why do you feel you have a need for a Mistress?)

3. How important is the fulfillment of these needs to you?

4. i seek to provide my Mistress with….?

(psychologically, emotionally, and sexually.)

5. my concept/definition of ‘submission’ is….?

6. my concept/definition of ‘servitude’ is….?

7. my concept/definition of “commitment’ is….?

8. In what area(s) do you require concentrated training?

9. Are you willing to accept the idea of being trained as the property of your Mistress?

10. Describe how you will serve your Mistress in Her absence.

 The following two questions deal with your current and initial preferences. These two questions may be answered with either a “Yes, Ma'am!” or a “No, Ma'am!” as long as you elaborate upon them with a minimum of one full sentence:

11. Do you prefer your Mistress to be:

    a. rough, tough, and stubborn?

    b .firm, stern, yet considerate?

    c. something else? What?

12. Do you prefer to:

    a. be commanded and ordered about?

    b. be given a set rules to obey?

    c. know the reason for some commands/orders?

    d. have no say in your training and use?

    e. have input in your training and use?

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Part Two: Photos are required.

Attach three photos wearing black boxer briefs. you also have the option

to wear a black hood in each photo. 1 photo in humble pose , 1 photo in

wait pose, and 1 photo in expose pose. Make sure the angle is the same as

in the photo to the right.

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1. What do you think is your best physical feature?

2. What you think is your worst physical feature?

3. What is your age? 

4. What is your height (do not exaggerate)?

5. What is your weight (again, do not exaggerate)?

6. What is your wingspan? (fingertip to fingertip)

7. What is your reach? (on tip toes to fingertips with hands stretched 

as high above you as possible, really stretch for it)

8. Cock size? Measure. Don't guess. Get that cock hard and measure accurately.

Cut/Uncut

~now that your cock is hard, cum for me.~

 

 

Part Three: Dating history.

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1. Prepare a detailed description of your former training.  Start at the beginning and take it Mistress by Mistress. Also include any vanilla or non BDSM related relationships.

2. Describe the type of training you received and/ or types of scenes you had.

3. Explain any problems with the relationships, including vanilla or non BDSM related relationships.

4. How long you were trained and what the major thing you learned from each.

5. Describe what you did and did not like about previous training experiences, what you did and did not like about any vanilla or non BDSM related relationships.

6. Describe how your were rewarded and/or punished.

7. Describe any experience you have had as a switch.

8. What has been your most intense scene involved in BDSM?

9.  What is your current marital status ( Do Not Lie)?

10. Have you been married before?

 if yes, very short summary of details what happened, caused it to end:

11. Have you ever been unfaithful to your lover or Mistress?

Describe:

12. Is there any reason why you would not be able to commit 100%?

(past, present or future reason)

13. What is the amount of time (months, years) you can commit to this relationship?

14. Are you opposed to your Mistress having more than one slave?

What about a kennel with multiple slaves?

15. Have you ever intentionally made your sex partner or Mistress mad?

If so why:

Circumstances, frequency:

16. Do you freely admit when you have done something wrong and are you prepared for the punishment?

17. Have you ever submitted to a male?

 

Part Four: How useful are you.

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DOMESTIC SKILLS:

Describe your abilities in domestic service such as cooking, cleaning, general house-work.

 

OTHER SKILLS

Describe your abilities at any other skills (such as massage or pedicures)

 

Part Five: The dungeon. 

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1. List sex toys you own and BDSM related toys.

2. List & describe any BDSM related equipment and furniture.

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Part Six: A little more about you.

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1. Have you violated any law in the past two years?

2. Have you ever been arrested?

Describe:

3. Do you have any strongly felt political beliefs?

Describe:

4. What personality trait of yours do you think your friends like the most?

5. What personality trait of yours do you think your friends like the least?

6. What is your worst habit, i.e., is there anything you do which you wish you could stop doing?

7. Overall, what do you think makes you the sort of person other people want to be around?

8. Title of the last motion picture you saw:

9. What are your musical tastes?

10. What is your current employment? How long?

11. What is your work schedule? 

12. Describe your hobbies. What do you do with your time away from work?

13. Describe what social activities you regularly enjoy.

14. Describe your abilities when it comes to handling your personal finances:

15. What are your thoughts about obeying a Mistress’s orders 24/7 in a TPE relationship? Are there any situations in which you think you would hesitate to follow your Mistress’s orders?

16. Do you feel that any current or prior religious beliefs will cause you personal conflict with being a slave and obedience?

17. In what areas would you not be willing to defer to your Mistress’s orders? Specifically, control of a slave involves control of his mind. Are there any portions of your thoughts which would be off limits to your Mistress. Explain.

18. Are you willing to enter into an ownership agreement if the chemistry is right? If so, what rights would you, as a slave, insist on being part of such a contract?

19.What are your biggest fears about becoming a slave to Mistress?

20.What do you look forward to the most about becoming a slave to Mistress?

21. Are you willing/able to relocate to become a 24/7 slave if Mistress wishes that?

22. Suppose your Mistress does something which strikes you as being absolutely stupid, irresponsible, or asinine, i.e., something that makes you realize that your Mistress has flaws. How do you believe you would handle this? How do you think it might affect your ability to be submissive to your Mistress?

23. Any comments (on any areas) not covered by the questionnaire that you feel are relevant in your case that have not been addressed.)

24. Do you have anything else to add or any questions related to this application?

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MistressJorja@gmail.com

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